We are separated, so he's still my husband. We're not in any danger of reconciling at this point, but it is the end goal at some stage. There have been a lot of changes in attitudes over the last year or so, so we will just see what the future holds.
We're taking a family holiday with all of us (me him and all the kids) in a few weeks for a week. I'm sure the results of that will be telling. I'm hopeful that things will go well.
That's it in a nutshell. Obviously there's a lot more to the story, so Clod, don't feel bad. I stopped updating my thread that I started about my journey because I decided it was a bit precious and no one really wants to know all the bits and pieces.