Originally posted by Radar
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American white men marrying those women are trading up because those women are far better than American women when it comes to marriage...
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You mean far better than American women at being your indentured servant.
Just wait till she's been over here a while, learns Engrish (assuming you permit her to wear shoes and further her education), learns to drive (assuming you allow her to leave the house unescorted and purchase a car for her), makes some friends, starts watching Oprah and Dr. Phil and starts figuring out what American women already know about you.
I was happy for you when you posted your wedding thread. Now it is clear that you have deluded yourself into thinking that because no one stateside would have you that your 9,000 mile journey was a journey to a land of "so-called" superior women.
Your new bride will eventually learn that there is a life outside of being your slave. I pity you when she does. As submissive as Asian women appear to the naive Westerner, they are Tigers at heart and can tear the flesh from your bones. You think you have control in this relationship but my guess is that she is smart enough to permit you to think that until she decides otherwise - which she will. Submissiveness in Asian women is not an individual trait its a cultural one. And when you take her out of the culture, she will learn that there will be nothing to stop her from self-actualizing - a destiny that you will be seen as an obstacle to. I would plan for that if I were you and step aside when it does.
Seems to me she already bitch-slapped you for not lying to the Immigration Authorities about meeting or not meeting in an Airport bar. Where do you compartmentalize anomolous behaviour such as that - behaviour that does not mesh with your stereotypical "submissive Asian woman" view?
And you call us racist.