You all make very good points.
I don't think there is any type of romantic expectations in the trip. We've already discussed that aspect of it. It's just to visit
It is still a city that I want to go to regardless, but I think I will get a hotel when I go. We can still hang out, but I will have a place to go if it doesn't work out. Unfortunately, going with someone isn't an option. Even if I did have a friend that would go (I doubt), I don't think there's a single one that could afford it or get the time off work/family. Anywhere I travel will, unfortunately, be on my own.
I also decided that I am not going this year. I just don't have the time with work and holidays coming up. If he puts up a stink, whelp, that's that.
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