[xoxoxoBruce]

I wouldn't worry about finding a queen until you've auditioned all the ladies in waiting. Enlarge your circle of friends/aquaintances and the dates will come to you because if there's anything married women can't stand, it's a free range male. They'll be hooking you up.
Queen,...hmm...I've come to the conclusion that if you put them on a pedestal;
1- They get lonely.
2- They get used to looking down on you.
3- You cease to be any kind of challenge.
4- They see your bald spot before anyone, including you.
Now you don't have to keep them barefoot and pregnant, but it's best to treat them as an equal, even if you feel you're not worthy ...or vis versa.
Career goals aren't bad, but don't be obsessed with a single goal. For example, don't say I want to be President of the USA and be miserable because you only make it to Senator. Say, I want to be a politician and work toward President, and being happy with every step up.
Working out is good. If you get real hunky you might attract some nice guys and you can tell all the women to go to hell. Just kidding. If you get all chiseled and shit, she might regret leaving....naw, she'd probably take credit for motivating you.
Stay positive and keep us posted.