Thread: Ladder theory
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Old 04-21-2004, 10:57 AM   #20
jaguar
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I have a male friend who I occassionally have fantastic sex with. Does this count? We're not fuck buddies, but neither are we 'just friends'. No jealousy, commitment or relationship politics. It works brilliantly.
I fail to see the line between that and fuck buddies.

Ladder theory would say, deep down, one of you is hiding something. Personally I feel there can be exceptions, I can think of one sexual-tension free friendship and as above: strings-free fucking.

My question for you would be, and you may as well be honest about this:
Could you in any situation, say your life suddenly fell apart, see yourself seeking anything more from the situation.
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