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Originally posted by homerjackson
Undertoad, I have a question that I hope is not too painful, because I know it's painful for me.
How did you deal with the fact that your wife will someday be with someone else.
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The surest cure for this is to go be with someone else yourself. Ladies, you can cover your eyes if you wish, but this needs to be said:
Nothing makes you feel better about being dumped and someone else hosing your previous love than going out and getting another lovely lady all hot for your stuff, making her go "yeeha". Really. Once you find out that many parts are interchangeable, then the rest suddenly becomes much easier.
I know it sounds stupid, but it isn't. You get so wired into the person you are with that you can't imagine them with anyone else nor yourself with someone else, but trust me...go out, have some cheap sex with new people, gain some equilibrium, *then* start worrying about a relationship.
For the love of God, DO NOT immediately hook into another serious relationship without a couple of practice laps around the track first.