You want elaboration? I can do elaboration. Ad nauseum (a little latin there to show how smart and superior I am

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But I won't. Because those who want to know already do and those who don't, ... don't.
Besides, I haven't been to a leather event of any kind in two years. Things may have changed.
What I did was pull out a few easy examples to try to clarify my point, and I think I've failed. I just reread my post and I think the point is more muddled than it was before I started. Maybe I should go off on the Witness Protection tangent instead. That might be easier.
Brian