It would be nice to have your personal shrink living next door, so you could chat when ever you get the urge. We know you can't afford that, only the 0.01% can afford to have one on staff. Besides, I'm not sure, but I don't think they work that way anyhow.
I'm under the impression they are not tour guides through life, holding the flashlight and reminding you to watch your step. More like map makers, who you can check with periodically to see if you're on the right path, and/or heading in the right direction. Unlike regular doctors they can't cure you, only help you figure out how to cure yourself, and write prescriptions to help cope while you do.
Don't get discouraged, you can do this, and you've got cheerleaders.
