It's a common point of conflict between people, I think.
You see work that has to be done, and the others don't.
From their perspective, you are creating work where none exists, and from your perspective, they are a bunch of lazy good for nothing slugs.
They have the power in this situation, because the unfinished work drives you crazy and you wind up doing it yourself. They don't have to do anything and the situation resolves itself.
If you want change, you need to help them to see that the work is real, so they see the need for it to be done, and then you need to tell them you won't take care of it. That it's their turn. And then you have to do nothing.
It's the classic StacyV and Arsen cleaning standoff. Except you need to communicate effectively so it doesn't get bad. It may or may not work, depending on how stubborn you all are.