[Griff]

... but you can leave the door open for new and different possibilities that the individual child can embrace or reject. Both my girls are good in math and sciences but lack an innate passion for them. In my own life, I've found a few niches that make me happy. One is in the classroom with young children which is a job for the ladies, another is with a saw, and another with a sword. We just have to be sure doors are left open so people are less miserable in their day to day existence.