I should add a postscript that I spoke with my daughter in law this morning who told me that the 6 year old Sarah who has just started 1st grade got 2 red marks this week in her conduct folder. On Wednesday a level 3 red mark for talking when she was not supposed to and yesterday a level 5 infraction (the worst) for talking again and turning her back on the teacher while she was teaching. Way to go Sarah! For that infraction she will have to eat her lunch today sitting in solitary at lunchroom table with a teacher that the other kids claim is a Zombie and never smiles.
Guess I should start checking her conduct folder on the way home.