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Old 05-26-2013, 10:07 PM   #3
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Originally Posted by ZenGum View Post
Maintain YOUR boundaries. Your first duty is to yourself, not someone from decades back in your past.

a. Ask her to stop. Politely, clearly, simply.

b. If that doesn't work, Unfriend her. If she gets all stalkerish, tell her to stop. If she doesn't, call cops. But it probably won't come to that.

c. Invoke "The Woodchuck Solution". Save that as a last resort.
That would be the smart thing to do, it's what I did 20 years ago and it worked for 20 years, so it might be a good thing to do again.

In the meantime I'll also try to find the tools that Glatt mentioned.
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