[footfootfoot]

I know. It's how I process pain and sorrow, unfortunately. Resisting the pain only intensifies it. Embracing it takes away its power. Owning it puts you in charge.

Then there's trying to make sense of it all, while knowing that can't be done, and learning to accept uncertainty, embrace it, and then own it as well.

At least that's the goal. The leap from the metaphorical "Hey you kids get off my goddamn lawn!" to "Let's go out on the lawn together." And if you are very fortunate it's all lawn, all you, all them.