[ZenGum]

That second one is horrible just for the language abuse. :p

Seriously, there are times when it is right to object to that sort of thing. You don't have to cause a big scene, but let them know you don't like it.

Groups and individuals determine their guidelines about behaviour through this kind of feedback, and at least a bit, it works. We've seen it here in the last year.

tl;dr: smack that bitch down!