Well, what if Sundae had just started a thread saying, "If you had to choose your last drink, what would it be?", without the back story, then would it be enabling? I'm not sure why you're taking a hard line on this sexo. To me this thread was about how Sundae has come to the end of the road as far as booze goes and how she's had her last drink.
I congratulate her on taking the advice of the docs and giving it away. It will be so good for her in so many ways.
I don't think it's necessary to beat down a vulnerable person, and believe me, I'm sure that's how Sundae would view your comments when she sees them.
Couldn't you just hop off your moral high horse and say your last drink would be water or something else non alcoholic, just to stick with the spirit of kindness maybe?
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