"To say it's all or nothing isn't helpful."
Never said 'all or nuthin'.
I merely point out what could work versus what just makes folks 'feel good'.
Interpret that as absolutist if you like (but that ain't what I said).
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"I'm looking for helpful ideas."
Since I was answering Spexx's question (not yours) can't say I give a flip what you're looking for.
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