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Trilby · 12-14-2012, 08:15 AM

Ah, the ex.

You recognize that he was an abuser on 'mulit-levels' - right?

his being an abuser invalidates anything he said. HE was damaged; not you. having lived with an extremely emotionally abusive father i have come to KNOW in my bones (and after 6 years of CBT) that it's not me, it's HIM.

It really really is HIM. He's damaged, he's jealous, he's mean, he's miserly, he's socially ignorant and proud to be, he's a bully-------not me. He didn't like me from the day I first drew breath. I am healing. You can, too.

and both my ex's think I'm crazy. One of them thinks I'm damaged b/c I was born onn Leap Year! LOL! Now that is crazy!!!

12-14-2012, 08:15 AM	#27
Trilby Slattern of the Swail Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 15,654	Ah, the ex. You recognize that he was an abuser on 'mulit-levels' - right? his being an abuser invalidates anything he said. HE was damaged; not you. having lived with an extremely emotionally abusive father i have come to KNOW in my bones (and after 6 years of CBT) that it's not me, it's HIM. It really really is HIM. He's damaged, he's jealous, he's mean, he's miserly, he's socially ignorant and proud to be, he's a bully-------not me. He didn't like me from the day I first drew breath. I am healing. You can, too. and both my ex's think I'm crazy. One of them thinks I'm damaged b/c I was born onn Leap Year! LOL! Now that is crazy!!! __________________ In Barrie's play and novel, the roles of fairies are brief: they are allies to the Lost Boys, the source of fairy dust and ...They are portrayed as dangerous, whimsical and extremely clever but quite hedonistic. "Shall I give you a kiss?" Peter asked and, jerking an acorn button off his coat, solemnly presented it to her. —James Barrie Wimminfolk they be tricksy. - ZenGum