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Originally Posted by Trilby
may I ask---who told you 'if people really knew you they wouldn't like you' --?
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My ex. You know, the person who I loved more than anyone. The one who I told early on that he put me on a pedestal and I was bound to fall off (but he said he would catch me and not let me fall) and the person I trusted more than anyone else on earth.
It was just a small part of a multi-level style of abuse. And I've never gotten over it, really. I've forgiven him, but I don't think the damage caused will ever go away. And it affects me. In way too many ways. I was sensitive to start with, but arent' we the kinds who typically become the target?