I'm an optimist. I think the San Fransisco strategy is going to pay off well. Instead of seeing a horrible, gruesome gay freakshow, you see average normal people, couples and families with kids that have been together and loving each other for years, celebrating their lives. Its making the injustice visible. Shows that the fears are out of wack. The hate spewing protester waving his poster about bestiality, screaming at the happy, peaceful couple holding their small child....its going to be very hard to go back now. Those who got hitched make me proud. I'm cheering them on.