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Please correct me if I am misremembering this statement. I worked evening shift tonight, and will head in for day shift tomorrow, so I can't go back and do the research right now ... haven't you (stacey) said in the past that you hate or at least dislike going with him to hang out with his friends, as they sit around and speak Russian, leaving you wondering what the hell is going on? Also, he may well have been going for some guy time to talk about YOU. Not the best situation for you to be in, present as the topic of conversation in a language you don't understand.
I'm continuing to take the position that the "contract" was overly lopsided, more restrictive on his part, and unworkable.
Your situation will continue to be a mess if you allow it to be. You cannot change his behavior, only your own.
I'm guessing you have not approached a counselor at this point.
Do so ASAP. You need some perspective here.
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