You're not moaning. It's always been my understanding that it is perfectly OK to vent here and I'm glad that you do. I always learn something and many times when I read what other people are going thru I feel either less lonely or grateful that my problems are so puny in comparison. If I had to live with my parents there would've been an untimely death already. I think you're doing a smashing job of holding back and being polite/pleasant.
and of COURSE we'd have staff if we lived together! I very much plan on being filthy rich before I die! 
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In Barrie's play and novel, the roles of fairies are brief: they are allies to the Lost Boys, the source of fairy dust and ...They are portrayed as dangerous, whimsical and extremely clever but quite hedonistic.
"Shall I give you a kiss?" Peter asked and, jerking an acorn button off his coat, solemnly presented it to her.
—James Barrie
Wimminfolk they be tricksy. - ZenGum
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