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warch · 02-23-2004, 02:41 PM

Please stop. I'm asking you to respect when a line of privacy has been indicated and back off.

A line of privacy has been crossed.

It hurts me to see this crap. So here it is for you all, my part in the whole sordid little thing. ( fans on 10). I'm sure you will be underwhelmed, because the content is not so hot, but the methodology is what disturbs me and Tony too.

This is my view, my take, I kept no personal emails or other to prove any of it. It never occured to me and I wouldnt do that shit anyway. The privacy is shot. enjoy. I no longer fucking care.

First Tony and I have known each other for 20+ years. He is like my brother. I also have been very happily married to my beloved spouse for the past 14 years.

I met a few people on the cellar and as many have, exchanged friendly off board chat and info.

I had no cause to doubt anyone's motivations until I was emailed, out of the blue, after the board crap with Dave, Tony, and syc. I didnot post any thoughts about this spat on line at all. I hoped that it would just work out.
Dave emailed to tell me, he was troubled by it he said, that Tony and Syc were saying shit about me and T romantically. Well first I'm shocked at this tale, then I realize that whats really happening here is that dave is trying to use me to get back at Tony. He's working to draw me over to his side. He tells me how much he cares and worries about Tony. But it doesnt ring for me. He is being clever, and I am being manipulated. I reply back for more information. I manipulated back. Then I email T and syc to check what is going down. Yes they said shit like guys do, and yes I dont care cause, it was shit. The thing that was bad was not the gossip, what was bad was that dave sought to play me as a pawn against Tony, and syc as well.

The manipulation was doomed because the thing is I *KNOW* is that Tony would never hurt me. He may say shit that makes me crazy, he may joke, but his aim is true . And he wouldnt hurt you either.
(Hell here he's been risking razing this whole board so as to save you hurt.)

I was drawn into this. I did not jump in.
Dave does not rate trust from me. It is my belief that dave is obsessive, manipulative, much smarter than me, and I want to just keep my head down and out of the way. He's shown something I find to be a bit dangerous. And now he knows that I know. Maybe I am paranoid. Ive been told to go with my gut.

Now you can continue to argue your ideals, but I'm done.

02-23-2004, 02:41 PM	#26
warch lurkin old school Join Date: Oct 2001 Location: Minnesota Posts: 2,796	Please stop. I'm asking you to respect when a line of privacy has been indicated and back off. A line of privacy has been crossed. It hurts me to see this crap. So here it is for you all, my part in the whole sordid little thing. ( fans on 10). I'm sure you will be underwhelmed, because the content is not so hot, but the methodology is what disturbs me and Tony too. This is my view, my take, I kept no personal emails or other to prove any of it. It never occured to me and I wouldnt do that shit anyway. The privacy is shot. enjoy. I no longer fucking care. First Tony and I have known each other for 20+ years. He is like my brother. I also have been very happily married to my beloved spouse for the past 14 years. I met a few people on the cellar and as many have, exchanged friendly off board chat and info. I had no cause to doubt anyone's motivations until I was emailed, out of the blue, after the board crap with Dave, Tony, and syc. I didnot post any thoughts about this spat on line at all. I hoped that it would just work out. Dave emailed to tell me, he was troubled by it he said, that Tony and Syc were saying shit about me and T romantically. Well first I'm shocked at this tale, then I realize that whats really happening here is that dave is trying to use me to get back at Tony. He's working to draw me over to his side. He tells me how much he cares and worries about Tony. But it doesnt ring for me. He is being clever, and I am being manipulated. I reply back for more information. I manipulated back. Then I email T and syc to check what is going down. Yes they said shit like guys do, and yes I dont care cause, it was shit. The thing that was bad was not the gossip, what was bad was that dave sought to play me as a pawn against Tony, and syc as well. The manipulation was doomed because the thing is I KNOW is that Tony would never hurt me. He may say shit that makes me crazy, he may joke, but his aim is true . And he wouldnt hurt you either. (Hell here he's been risking razing this whole board so as to save you hurt.) I was drawn into this. I did not jump in. Dave does not rate trust from me. It is my belief that dave is obsessive, manipulative, much smarter than me, and I want to just keep my head down and out of the way. He's shown something I find to be a bit dangerous. And now he knows that I know. Maybe I am paranoid. Ive been told to go with my gut. Now you can continue to argue your ideals, but I'm done.