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undone · 02-20-2004, 04:44 PM

My upbringing was out of the ordinary as my mother's parents ended up raising me. I was number 5 child for them and came out of a horrible situation between my mom and dad. I think my grandparents were only in their mid-forties when they became grandparents. Their youngest child was eight.
My Gramps didn't like me much and my Gram was so frazzled all the time. They didn't have time or energy to do much but just cope. It also seems like they just expected me to be a failure because of what and whom I had come from.
All they ever said was "Don't get pregnant and ruin your life like your mother did" "Don't be like your mother"
Gee, thanks.
In any case, It sunk in and I didn't have any kids until I was married and 28.
I am less than satisfied with how I make my money but, I don't know what I would have done differently. I never was very good any anything particular. I think my talent lies in understanding people and being able to offer a unique empathy. I wish I would have traveled and seen more of the world. Utah can be such a small place.
I am/do encourage my daughters to explore whatever interests them. Above all I want them to realize there is a huge amazing world out there. They can go anywhere and do anything the set their minds to.
As for me, I am very happy being a parent.

02-20-2004, 04:44 PM	#6
undone work in progess Join Date: Feb 2004 Posts: 100	career path My upbringing was out of the ordinary as my mother's parents ended up raising me. I was number 5 child for them and came out of a horrible situation between my mom and dad. I think my grandparents were only in their mid-forties when they became grandparents. Their youngest child was eight. My Gramps didn't like me much and my Gram was so frazzled all the time. They didn't have time or energy to do much but just cope. It also seems like they just expected me to be a failure because of what and whom I had come from. All they ever said was "Don't get pregnant and ruin your life like your mother did" "Don't be like your mother" Gee, thanks. In any case, It sunk in and I didn't have any kids until I was married and 28. I am less than satisfied with how I make my money but, I don't know what I would have done differently. I never was very good any anything particular. I think my talent lies in understanding people and being able to offer a unique empathy. I wish I would have traveled and seen more of the world. Utah can be such a small place. I am/do encourage my daughters to explore whatever interests them. Above all I want them to realize there is a huge amazing world out there. They can go anywhere and do anything the set their minds to. As for me, I am very happy being a parent.