Mr. and Mrs. StaceyV, the Internet will not solve your problems, and it is ridiculous to believe otherwise. No intelligent person is going to assure either one of you that you're a blameless victim here. You've both acted stupidly. You should exchange some heartfelt apologies, and start respecting one another's feelings. Marraige will not survive too many little self-absorbed bullshit issues, especially when both parties lie to themselves about the amount of blame they should absorb.
If you want a healthy marraige, keep outside parties uninvolved in your personal problems, with the exception of professional therapists... This includes best friends, parents, neighbors, and strangers on the Internet. To do otherwise wise muddies the waters by marinading the situation in uninformed bias.
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Originally posted by lumberjim
if you don't want people to be honest about how they feel about your dirty laundry, don't show it to them. moron
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Pretty god damned eloquent, Jimbo. Brilliantly put.