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Originally Posted by Clodfobble
Are you sure it wasn't an accident? Most women will outwardly try to make the best of it, even if they are shit-ass terrified.
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Originally Posted by DanaC
Yeah. Once the initial shock and panic is done with you'd surely just start focusing on the good stuff. By the time you're in the staffroom talking to colleagues, you've already got it sorted in your head to a degree I'd think.
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The parent isn't staff. We heard indirectly that she was "trying" but weren't sure whether to believe it until she started showing. And those of us who have no direct contact with her only heard after the birth.
Rereading what I wrote I do feel a bit mean.
I didn't know the eldest, but I have worked with the other two. In fact I was working with one of them today. He is a great boy and it's not up to me to suggest someone should or shouldn't be born.