I think that if instead, when I had a complaint, people said to me, "No, dude, you're just a fucking moron", that it would elicit the exact same response in me.
Like I don't know what <b>I'm</b> feeling!
"Hey, this irritates me"
"No it doesn't. You're an idiot. You don't even know what you're feeling. I know what you're feeling better than you".
Auuughh!
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My apologies.. I still felt like venting.