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what's so wrong about being bitter anyway? sure its not socially pleasent to be around, its not attractive, but there's plenty of shit one can live through that its completely reasonable to be bitter about.
there are ideologies that try to form delusions regarding it - "the secret" metaphysics, the belief in karma & comsic justice, or the aproach to life as a single "now" moment in order to devalue memories of the past and the fears of the future... but that's exactly what those things are - self delusions whose only use isn't to overcome anything but rather to not deal with things at all.
i'm not saying be stuck in it, i'm not saying form your personality around it, but why not be bitter when its reasonable?
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