[Stormieweather]

Originally Posted by Stormieweather

The only power she has over you is the power you grant her.

As long as you continue to dance the dance, you will stay stuck and in pain. Do what's best for YOU. Do you honestly think reacting to her bs, looking for ways to obtain vengeance, or obsessing over the child is best for YOU?

I've lost a child I loved that wasn't mine. Two of them. I have their half brother, and they don't even know about him. Sad what kind of hurt we inflict on one another out of spite. But I can tell you that the hurt will ease with time.

Step out of the arena and move on with your life. As they say, living well is the best revenge.

Go forth and live well.

Weird. After posting this and while thinking of this former relationship, I did a fast google search on this ex. He is my son's father, although they've only seen each other 3x (ex's choice). So what pops up? His obituary! He died 3 weeks ago and his obit was posted yesterday. How very strange the coincidence!! He was only 66 yrs old