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Old 01-16-2012, 10:47 AM   #46
Sundae
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Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: West Yorkshire
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Good advice here Trac.
I didn't pay a penny to get divorced - it was all handled by my husband, because he was the one who wanted it.
I left him, but as I knew I would never marry again I wasn't bothered about paperwork.

People here know about leaving children. How painful it is. Some Dwellars have fought to remain part of their children's lives. But there is nothing you can legally do. Not now, and at no point in the future. Of course it hurts like buggery. But sad as it is, you just have to take in what Stormie wrote - it will get easier, even though you don't want it to right now.

There is a very good chance you will have biological child(ren) of your own. They'll never replace your son, but at least you will have legal rights this time.

Let her wear herself out in spite and anger.
You can only change you.
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