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Originally Posted by DanaC
I also think, and correct me if I am wrong, or tell me off this is too personal (;p) but try to avoid girls who you feel need rescuing, fixing, or nurturing because they're damaged. because all too often the end result of that is that they end up with boosted self esteem and you become the person who got them there, not the one who gets to share it with them.
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well, the end result sort of happened, but i don't think i wanted to be the guy coming to the rescue as much as the guy who was already in there and saw stuff that need's fixing and nutrturing because.. well, because he didn't like the consequances of it not being fixed.
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Originally Posted by DanaC
What you need, imo, is something uncomplicated and fun. No major expectations. Just a little healing and mutual enjoyment. Leave the life partner thing for another time. You've time enough for something lighter.
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that's so freaking true you have no idea.