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The wimmenfolk love guys who have something going on. Something you truly like and are into. It doesn't much matter what it is. If it's a money-making thing that's excellent, but if it's a hobby or some other focused activity that you can talk about, that works too.
As far as our two above money-grubbers, who claim they hate capitalism but announce that debt is nothing less than a turn-off -- actually sexualizing your net worth! -- you don't want somebody like them. You don't have to talk money at all. You're not looking to get married here; really, it's not time to think that way. In order for you to have a healthy marriage it is good for you to run through several relationships in your 20s to figure out which of the women are good fodder for the long term. (Some of them are secretly terrible for you. You need to learn the signs of this.) As long as you can handle your side of the dinner at Applebees you should be good to go. (Include $2 of overtipping in your dinner plan. It's the cheapest way to impress her, and the cheapest way to be a decent human being.)
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