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Originally Posted by sexobon
Of all the subjects covered by the Cellar's various forums and of all the sub-topics covered by threads within each forum, you started out here not by posting a reply to anyone else's interests; but, by starting a thread about you feeling alone. If that doesn't say "needy" it's because it SCREAMS "needy" ... actions speak louder than words ... first impressions and all that. Yes, you present as looking for someone to make you happy and being unable to maintain that threshold on your own. With an entrance like that, I hope you didn't come here looking for potential IRL companionship. Coming for advice is good.
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I appreciate the honesty.
I did come here looking for advice, not a partner, so no worries (I hope).
So let's assume I am as needy as I appear. Does that mean I'm unfit to have a girlfriend and I shouldn't try to get one until I somehow figure out how to be un-needy?
I apologize if that sounds bitter, I guess I am a bit bitter about things, but I do wanna figure all this out.