I get what you're saying, I really do...but for ME? No.
Nope nope nope.
That isn't fit conversation for just meeting people. I'll get more prude stickers I'm sure, but as open book as I am there are some things I think are meant for more intimate relationships. If "whoever" had been here a bit longer, even, I might reconsider.
But nope.
So I'll shuddup and all, but I maintain that for ME, I was doing the online version of knocking someone upside the head for assuming that they can say absolutely anything they want to me out of the blue.
I call it respect. That's just ME. IMHO.