[Whit]

      Um, nobody's demanding you define anything. The point is, what if your parent's weren't there for you "through thick and thin?" Would the 'love' still be there? Even if it wasn't would it be okay to "no?"
      By the way, I don't see any reason to not be able to define the why's and have's of any given emotion, including love. They are something I feel, certainly there is a reason for it and I am the person most likely to know what it is.