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Old 01-12-2004, 08:32 AM   #2
staceyv
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Join Date: Nov 2003
Location: Ohio
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you're good looking enough to get better and you seem intelligent. if you two aren't compatible then please don't waste your time. it's normal to feel lonely and to miss her but that doesn't mean that she's "the one". just try to learn from the relationship. now you know a few things that you can look for (or run from) with the next girl you date. once you get out there and start dating again, you won't miss her as much. in my experience, if you break up with someone once, you will never be right for each other. i dated one guy for 2 1/2 years and i loved him a lot and he loved me, but there were things about us that weren't compatible, so we kept breaking up and then missing each other and getting back together...what a waste of time. the real end of our relationship came because of the same reasons that caused us to break up the very first time. we were like a fly banging itself against a window. you CAN find someone who you are more compatible with. it might take time, but you owe it to yourself. i read somewhere that marrying the right person determines 90% of whether or not you will be happy in life.
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