[Elspode]

NBN is right...brains first, then looks, if you want the whole thing to have any meaning at all.

If all you want is some sex and something that you can, if you choose, call 'love', then I don't think you'll have any trouble. You seem very articulate, and you are an attractive, young male specimen. Go to a bar. Go to a Borders. Go where the women are, find one for whom there is some form of mutual attraction, and go with the flow.

My first wife was (and I hope you don't think me arrogant, it is simply true) my vast intellectual inferior...but she was a *babe* in her young days. Now, 11 years post-divorce, neither of us is much in the looks department, and she's still dumb as a post, but I'm blessedly married to an intelligent, articulate, devoted, spiritual woman to whom the first one could never hold a candle. That is because I've learned to think with the big head, my friend.

It isn't that the little head isn't pleased with the present Mrs., it is just that we have a lot going on upstairs together, and it is just as fulfilling as what goes on downstairs.