[Whit]

      Well Juju, it's what is called a 'societal expectation'. You are supposed to, therefore few people ever consider 'if' or 'why'. Don't you know it's easier not to think? Society will tell you what you should be thinking/feeling. Trust society. Society is your friend.
      Anyway, I've been on both sides. I feel a certain bond with my mom, based largely off of knowing her for so long. She really has racked up quite a few hours in my life. Is this love? Not really. But for most it's close enough. Especially since 'love' is such a wonderfully semi-defined term.
      Now, I do love my kids. I base this on my complete willingness to put their welfare above mine. Also, I become irritable if I don't interact often enough with them. However, I played a part in bringing them into this world. (well most of them) So I have a responsibility to them. As I see it they have none to me. I do not demand respect from my children. I do, however, demand politeness and that they develop themselves mentally and physically. I also attempt to aid in these endeavors. I find this leads to respect, and maybe even love from them.