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				Originally posted by darclauz  
but for me, the point was-- i set rules for her, and asked my family to follow them, and melissa disregarded them willfully, and with a smirk on her face that DARED me to do anything about it.  THAT i object to. 
			
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 That's the point, unfortunately. You can't set rules for your family to follow. You simply have no way to enforce them. You can only tell your daughter what to do.
When I went through this, I naively just expected them to cooperate out of respect. HA! When has my familiy ever respected me?