[Sundae]

Beeb, like Shawnee I know this isn't what you want to hear.
But the man is BAD NEWS.

Get out of it now, it will hurt you more in the long run.
It's ONLY a MONTH and he is still married anyway.
Imagine how you would feel if you'd committed seven years (as I did, in slightly different circumstances) and you were still bailing him out and he was still dithering about moving away from his wife.

I know Bruce has spoken up before about women slating men and turning them against their partners, but I'm sure even he would agree in this case.
The man does not care enough for you to stay sober enough to pick you up. Yes - addiction is an issue and I do empathise, but he still let you down. And he is still involved personally, legally and business-wise with another woman who will be recognised by all his friends and family as being his "real" partner.

In the words of Sheryl Crowe
Run baby run baby run baby run baby run..