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			Jinx, I'm sorry.  I know it's probably no comfort, but the fact that people are telling you what he said is probably an indication that they can see past his POV and think he is being a jerk to you.  If enough people think that there's a chance he may come to realize it too.  I think my dad is, nearly 20 years after we parted ways.  We'll never be close, but there is hope for "not dead to each other", and there may be for you too.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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