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Old 12-18-2003, 07:00 PM   #43
ladysycamore
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Originally posted by Lady Sidhe
I just think it's a shame. He wants her to get rid of all of her friends, but he won't give up this girl...
Fuck that dumb shit. What's good for the goose and all that...

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these two used to be so good together....everyone was jealous of them. They were like two trippy peas in a far-out pod, to quote scooby-doo, but now he won't talk to her, doesn't seem to care about how she feels, and seems to have a double standard for their behavoir (for example, he says they don't have enough money for bills, yet he'll buy an $80 wireless keyboard and mouse, which he doesn't need, but when she buys a pack of cigarettes, she's "pissing away money." He just spent $50, AFTER telling her they were out of money, for two marathon LOTR movie tickets....he said it was for THEM, so they could do something together....but she ended up not being able to go because they couldn't get a babysitter....he went by himself, with a bunch of his friends, including two ex girlfriends, and left her behind at home....so much for it being for THEM, something they could do TOGETHER.) He hangs out with his friends at least twice a week, doesn't come home till one or two in the morning, but he begrudges her time with her friends....yet he never invites her anywhere.
Damn, this is madness. I'd have to leave him...or I'd be on his ass everyday about that shit.

Well, ultimately, it's her choice, and having a kid certainly doesn't make things any easier. I think I'd have to agree with those that have said to just be there for your friend, whatever decision she decides to make.
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