For "a positive cloth diapering experience" BD#2 recommends this thingy, which attaches to your toilet and rinses the poop off:
Diaper sprayer
I suppose you could use it as a cheapo bidet, too. ??
She has also made wool diaper covers, with cloth inserts which snap in. The wool breathes, but doesn't readily absorb liquids, which all goes into the easily cleaned and dried inserts. She says she saves a ton of money on laundry costs.
If anyone is interested, I might be able to get you a deal on some of these professional quality natural fiber diapers, too.