[Griff]

Put a label on yours, maybe you can do something about it.

Griff: limited generosity of spirit
If doing something for someone gives every indication of being truly unproductive, I have a really hard time committing my time to it. I think the root of it was those many many hours spent with my Dad not getting stuff done on the farm growing up. My Mom's side of the family is notorious for remarkably effective work habits, while my Dad's side could find the road blocks and pointless rambling in any activity. Now I'm kind of a bastard about letting my life slip away in dithering...