11-20-2003, 08:26 AM
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Intouch with his inner sheep rider.
Join Date: Nov 2003
Posts: 603
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Originally posted by Whit
Curious, why the hell does that matter? If I do right by someone it has nothing to do with how they will respond. That way lies only bitterness and letdown. I do right by people becuase I believe it to be right. Not because I expect a return.
It matters because then you're just helping an ungreatful asshole. You're being used; a tool. Your sense of "right" is allowing somebody to manipulate you into being their "slave" because they'll never do jack shit for you while you bend over backwards for them doing the "right" thing.
The funny thing is, you'd probably never notice till somebody else points it out to you. It'll sound something like "WTF is wrong with you? Can't you see that you're just being used?"
Also, simple response to April, or anyone as stupid as you say she is. Put her on your ignore list. After all, if she's that stupid she won't say anything of value to you, therefore, no loss. Plus you won't be irritated by her, your gain.
I'll still see all the responses to her "Oh woe is me! Oh I'm so bored; dance and entertain me!" threads. I could ignore half of the cellar to avoid the idiotic responses to her also, but that kinda invalidates the whole point behind going to the cellar in the first place. I want her to leave.
I will admit though, I've missed most of the stuff with her as I haven't the time for much dwelling of late. I also tend to skip the "Hi, I'm a newbie" threads. Still, I say keep her around, without the extra abuse. Perhaps she'll be better in the future. Of course I stood up for Luvbugz too, and I was one of the first people she freaked out on...
I don't know Luvbugz so I don't care. April's posts tell only half the story, she's a PM addict with a horrible habbit of PMing random strangers asking them to be her friends...
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