[lumberjim]

olemiss,

I have to agree with your stance on cutting those apron strings, and the gf's mom should be ashamed of herself for even asking for your help, much less demanding it and trying to give you a guilt trip.

*crosses eyes like Colombo*

I just have one question:

What did you do to your son in his earlier teen years to make this walking fireplug and her transient lifestyle seem attractive?

nothing personal, as i don't know you, but I think usually when we have a problem with someone and it seems like they are totally in the wrong, it is still a good idea to look at ourselves at the same time to see if we have caused or contributed to the problem.

be honest, I am not judging you, it just seems like part of this story is missing.