Nothing used to piss me off more when i was with J, than when I took him to task about the way we were training/raising Pilau and he'd say "Oh you've been talking to your mum"
Fuck you. I have formed my own fucking opinions thankyou very much,. How dare you suggest that I am so weak minded as to just be led by the nose and 'given' my opinions by someone else.
I may be wrong, but that attitude seems to be a male one towards women and not so much the other way around. Very paternalistic. Even J, who was/is pretty right on in matters of gender politics had a tendency to resort to that shit in an argument.
How would it be if you were to suggest he's been brainwashed by the media?
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