The thing that astounds me is people who think the rest of us can't see patterns. Like, let's say I had a coworker who had at one time or another bitched or gossiped about every single other person in our department. What are the chances that I'm magically the only one she's never spoken badly about to our other coworkers? Yet I feel really sure that she would never in a million years have imagined that I viewed her as untrustworthy.
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