If my sister tried to interfere in my decision to get married I'd be pissed as all hell.
It's irrational and illogical to be this bent out of shape about it, imo. Do you have a therapist you can talk to? I suspsect your distress at your sister's impending nuptuals is a side-effect of something else that is bothering you. It's clearly having a big effect on your personal happiness so I think you should maybe concentrate on that. Just my 0.00000002c worth
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