I think this may have been the story that prompted me to ask:
http://www.annarbor.com/news/mystery...tims-re-built/
clearly the relatives had differing opinions.
Apparently the girls in this case died beause they weren't wearing seatbelts. A memorial to stupidity. They should add a seatbelt to it.
I don't think I'd like a memorial to a relative of mine left there indefinitely, especially not the type with stuffed animals ..I find it unnecessarily morbid and somewhat distasteful. But that's just me. Imaging in a celeb chose to kill themselves on the public highway in front of your house. you'd be plagued by mouldy stuffed animals forever. Unless they got in the way of the mowing.