depression is far different from unhappiness, though. Not only can one not choose to be depressed, often one can't even choose to get help.
I do think many people dwell to much on bad things that have happened to them in the past; crappy childhoods, etc. So, your dad beat you. So someone fondled you when you were little. Get over it. Look forward not backward!
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